The men I've truly loved
needed me to need them more.
All I wanted was to be wanted.
I didn't understand their need.
Others say I've always been this way ...
Autonomous.
Independent.
Self-sufficient.
I thought it was a compliment.
A part of my strength.
Maybe I was wrong.
Maybe they were.
Yes, yes, yes! I've remained friends with my ex and he is currently in a relationship with someone who needs him more than I ever did and he's thriving.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I wonder if I'm truly independent and self-sufficient or just set in my ways. Who would I be if relaxed and let myself need someone? Would I be more accepting of a partner who truly needed me? Would I be in a relationship right now if I let myself need someone?
Interesting post, Shannon.
Karmabundance
Thank you thank you. And, I'm so relieved to know I'm not the only one. :)
DeleteMOST EXCELLENT pondering!
ReplyDeleteThank you. :)
Deletevery interesting observation... can I see you when you get back???
ReplyDeleteCan I answer that when I get back. ;-) Of course, Kent. See you in March.
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